The Perfect Man Does Not Exist

There is no Perfect Man. Not unless your idea of the perfect man changes with every cute guy you meet.The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect.

You ARE going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won’t find him hiding under your bed. You already know that he isn’t among the men that you are acquainted with so, now what? Online dating is “what”.

It’s true that online dating, while in its infancy, was only made up of perverts, sexual predators, nerds and weirdos but that is no longer true. People are more aware of the dangers and the benefits of the online dating. It has become the main tool of the single person in every developed country in the world to look for their Significant Other. Forty million people can’t all be wrong. Ask your girl friends if they have ever used online dating or are using it now. If they are honest with you, most of them have or are now members of at least one online dating site and maybe more than one. It really is the way to go to meet eligible men who want to meet you. It doesn’t matter what any of your numbers are…like age, height, weight or income either. Somewhere out there in the big wide world there is a man who will like you…..then love you….and think that you are beautiful and desirable. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is true. What is considered beautiful in one part of the world is completely different from what is considered beautiful in another part of the world. It’s even different from one part of this country to another.

Write down a list of what you are looking for in a man. Your list will be your guide. Bear in mind that you will not be able to find a guy that fulfils every single point on that list but try searching for one that fits as many as possible. You can start by finding an online dating site that fits your needs. There are so many to choose from. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Write a great profile and post a flattering picture. Start contacting eligible men on the site. This way you can sieve through the dating pages to have an idea what turns you on or off. Don’t rush but keep searching effectively. Mr. Close-enough-to-perfect could be a few mouse clicks away. And remember, the Perfect Man does not exist unless you tweak your thoughts to fit him.

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