The Difference Between Man And Woman

April 14, 2008 by Patricia  
Filed under General

God made Man and Woman different. And though they both are human beings, well, they function really differently. I’m sure you will agree with me that men and women seem to operate at different frequencies and sometimes, it’s difficult to get both to agree with each other.

Well, if you haven’t realised, the true difference between man and woman is not their physical anatomy but in the way they communicate.

I recently browsed several blogs and chanced upon Desmond’s blog where he interestingly brought up this issue. More amusingly, he actually managed to capture the very essence of how men and women operate.

Moreover, he ended his blog post with this:

“P.S: Do Not Try to Calm down an Angry Woman. Just dodge the bullets and wait for it to cool down. When she starts to chill and lose her emotion, logic will start coming in and she will see the bigger picture.”

Well, I feel that it can be really true sometimes. Women are born less rational and more emotional than men, which makes us susceptible to the environmental conditions, perceptions of the situation and also to the emotions that we are experiencing at that moment.

I don’t deny that because of our lack of ability to allow our emotions to affect us, men have termed us as being unreasonable, difficult to understand and even hard to please. But before these accusations fly amok again, it’s good to realise that different people process information differently which explains why 2 people faced with the same situation will narrate the situation differently as well as handle it differently.

I agree with Desmond effective communication is needed for both genders to be able to understand each other well and this reduces miscommunication of ideas. However, this does not only apply in romantic relationships, but also in work relationships, friendships or professional relationships - communication is the key to having a successful relationship!

So, always think about the way you communicate your ideas and suggestions to others. Do they respond the way you wish they would or do things turn sour? Well, pay attention to your body language, tonality of the voice and choice of words to help you understand the way you communicate better!  

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