“How To Make Your Dates Effective And Unforgettable”

By Giuseppe Notte

You’re on your first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your palms are sweaty, and you’re trying damn hard to come up with something funny to say, only to lapse into long silences in your conversation. She stands up after an hour and says, “Sorry, but it’s getting late. I have to go home to feed my dog.” Before you can say something, she’s already gone.

I’m sure the above situation has happened in your worst nightmares. The most crucial part of your interactions with women and the key to your success is the first date. If you do it well, it will be easy to get down and dirty quickly.

Most guys do something boring on the first date. Going to a movie, sitting in a cafe, having an expensive dinner at a restaurant — the list is endless. It’s easy to use this to your advantage, though: By using a little imagination, you’ll be way ahead of the crowd.

Here’s how:

When I go out with a woman, I take her on an adventure date. This word has multiple meanings, as you will see. We do something exciting and romantic at the same time. Something that brings us as close as we can possibly get on a first date.

Let’s look at an example:
A friend of mine takes his girls on an exciting outing. They visit one of the local sightseeing locations and end up at an abandoned ruin of a castle. By then it’s usually getting dark — don’t worry, though, my friend is there to hug and protect our just-a-little-bit frightened girl.

Another example:
We have a hill in my city with a castle and some monuments on the top. There is a tunnel crossing the hill. The tunnel ends at a bridge that is illuminated at night, creating a wonderful view.

Usually, I take my date on a short walk among the monuments. As it gets dark, we go on a tiny road down the hill that leads us to a place that only a few people know about: the top of the tunnel. And below us is the entire city — a wonderful and romantic sight. This is the point where I usually go in for the first kiss.

Don’t think that you need special places or monuments for adventure dates. You can even do them indoors:
When the weather doesn’t allow going outside, I bring my date to the local shopping mall. We sit in a cafe and talk a bit. Then I stand up and invite her for a walk around. We visit a few stores while shopping for some clothes for me. Then we go bowling or go to the local bookstore, where we have fun laughing at the various love and sex advice books together.

The above are just examples. It’s easy to come up with your own ideas. All you need is a little imagination and a little knowledge of your city. Check out a local city guide paper for some examples or ask a friend who knows.

The key to successful adventure dates is not in the adventure itself, but in sharing activities with the girl. If you sit in a cafe and stay there for four hours, it will be nothing more than a conventional date. But if you sit in a cafe, then visit other places together as well, she will lose her sense of time and feel as if you’ve known each other for a while. In that state, it’s much easier to go in for the first kiss and even more.

Finally, if you’re interested in improving your success with women and learning more tips and tricks of seduction, check out my e-book, All About Women: The Encyclopedia Of Seduction. In my book, I cover each step of the seduction process, including: understanding the way women think, learning to be a Man who attracts girls with his presence, the right way to approach women, secrets to make your dates successful and effective, improving your sex life and much more… Whether you’re ugly, bald, young, old or broke, the techniques I teach you will work like a charm!

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3 Ways To Re-Spark The Magic Back Into Your Relationship

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? Feel like you’re stuck in a rut and always doing the same things? You’re not alone. After dating someone for a long time, it’s easy to slip into a stable and comfortable routine. However, you often lose the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Not to worry, here are three simple, fun and creative ways to reignite that magic:

1. GIVE THEM A UNIQUE GIFT
Name a Star after your partner. A number of astronomical agencies allow individuals to name stars and you receive formal documentation identifying the star that you have named. Or how about this: Give your partner a magic gift box, and every month place a new small gift in the box for your beloved to discover.

2. SAY “I LOVE YOU” IN A UNIQUE WAY
Take a book that your partner is reading and, using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a secret message of “I love you” or an entire love letter. Doing it just like this. Or for something really unique: You can buy special plants that grow and after 14 days display a message of your choice on the leaf. Cool or what!

3. START GOING ON DATES AGAIN
One thing that separates couples with ‘out of this world’ relationships, is they never stop doing new, fun and exciting things with their partner. In other words, they never stop dating and neither should you. Spend the day doing fun things: go to the carnival, the beach, have a water fight, stare at the clouds on a grassy hill, go on a picnic, walk in the rain without raincoats and umbrellas, dress up in funny costumes and hit the town. Or how about this: Pick your partner up for a date and blindfold her before driving to a special destination. Try to make the destination something really unexpected like a table set up at the top of a cliff or a dinner on a boat or old-fashioned ship. It needs to be something that will have an impact when she removes the blindfold.

Believe me when I say that NOTHING can rekindle the love, passion and excitement in your relationship more than going on fun and creative dates together.

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Have You Checked Out Marriage Central?

Marriage Central is a new site that was launched by the National Family Council (in Singapore) and according to the site,

Marriage Central is a one-stop resource point by the National Family Council to promote stronger, healthier and happier relationships.

For non-Singaporean blog readers, you’ll be wondering what is Marriage Central, well, it seems like a new government initiative or community development project to boost marriages and relationship building.

When I first got to know of the site, I thought it was a refreshing initiative in terms of the relationships and family development aspect, especially when it helps boost the importance of marriages and well being in relationships.

For married couples and couples still in courtship, there are a few events and activities that are geared towards boosting creativity in maintaining a relationship and marriage. Building up a community to encourage such interactions and learning, can be useful in the long run, inculcating the importance of certain values such as  trust, communication, honesty and so on.

If you’re wondering why I’m supporting such an initiative, well, it’s because I believe in supporting any initiative and cause that’s geared towards helping people have more fulfilling relationships, marriages and lives.

Society often neglects the importance of relationships and familial ties and values because of distractions around us such as economic situations and coming up with a website like  Marriage Central is going to draw awareness to this.

So, do check out what this site has to offer and what the National Family Council has planned for the coming month.  I do hope that this initiative is not a one-time thing though. If not, I’ll be glad to take over what they are doing and continue in their fashion. (Similar things are being planned for RelationshipsGuru.com by the way.. So do stay tuned!)

In the meantime, dear lovely married couples and dating ones, do check out Marriage Central!

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