Kissing Tips on a Date

Usually, you shouldn’t go all out with a kiss at the end of a first date. First date kisses mostly involve light pecks at the cheeks or even on the lips. These kisses should only be allowed once you feel comfortable enough with your date.

The right time to kiss is usually the most romantic moments of the date. When you feel that you’re close enough to your date while having fun doing a set of adventurous activities, this might be the right time to kiss.

If you’re talking while having a quiet walk at the park and you notice that he’s looking directly at your eyes, this is usually another one of those right kissing moments. Try to look at his eyes and see if he’s sincere enough to give you a light kiss on the lips. You’ll usually feel if it’s just the right time to kiss.

Sharing moments are usually the best times to kiss on a date, especially if you’re talking about something
personal.

Just like how my very own first kiss occurred. It happened while we were on a date and we just happened to go to a nearby park, Istana Park to just take a walk after dinner. The atmosphere provided just the setting and we were talking about each other and our relationship. And generally, the situation wasn’t dramatic and serious to kiss. And then, the right moment to kiss appeared - during  our sharing moments. And frankly, that was when everything just happened on automatic mode.

It was perfect.

At the end of the date, you can give him a light peck at the cheeks if you had fun with him on your first date after he has taken you home safe and sound. And if you feel comfortable sharing your personal perceptions and experiences with your date, let him know about your feelings.

And if you happen to have fun with him again on your second date, you can give him a friendly kiss on the lips.

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Clueless About The Girl?

Guys are always clueless about the opposite sex. Especially when they aren’t sure if she is interested in them or in further developing the relationships. Because Women are just so hard to understand. Or so the guys say.

Often these questions run in their heads,

“Does she like me?”

“What does she think of me?”

“Does she feel the same way about me the way I do about her?”

“She gives me occasional stares but how can I be sure that she likes me?”

Well, you can definitely determine or at least have a gauge of whether a girl is interested in you by the way she looks at you or the things she does to you.

Try to pay attention to the way she looks at you and behaves when with you and other people. The idea is if she gives you long stares and looks at you with complete attention and is always around you, high chances are that she might fancy you.

Here are a couple of more things to take note of her to let you have a better idea of how she regards you:

1. She smiles a lot when with you.

>> She smiles when you tell jokes that are not funny and when you do something childish or foolish. And she smiles at you whenever you look in her direction. Her smiles are sweet and with love.

2. She seems nervous when with you.

>> Well, when a girl is attracted to you, they tend to act goofy or in a peculiar manner and sometimes even they can’t explain why they behave in such a manner. If she seems very uncomfortable or nervous around you, it might be because she fancies you and doesn’t know how to approach you.

3. She would talk with a soft voice.

>> She would talk in a nice soft sexy tone to attract you or she might try to match the volume of her voice with yours. Also she would use selective words when talking to you to impress you or maybe she might be cautious about what she says to you.

4. Her body language tends to you.

>> Well, if she likes you, her body language will change when you are around. She would sit in a proper posture. She would try to be her best self and would behave in a manner she thinks you would like.

5. She is highly attentive towards you.

>> She would pay more attention towards you than towards other people. She would notice each minor detail about you and would remember each and every thing you talked about.

6. She fingers her hair while talking to you.

>> She plays with her hair when you are talking or rolls her fingers through her hair while talking to you. There’s no explanation as to why girls do that but it’s a good indication that she might be interested in you.

7. She talks to her friends about you.

>> The best way to find out whether she likes you or not is to talk to her friends and find out. Well, it’s because girls like to share with their friends about the guys they are interested in.

Alternatively, you can ask her if you can’t stay in the suspense. But it is the toughest thing to do yet best thing to do to find out if she likes you or not. Sometimes, it takes a guy to put away his pride in order for him to do this. But actually, you do not have much to lose because if she rejects you or says she isn’t interested, well, just change the topic and say you were just kidding! It may hurt you to find out that she’s not interested but on the other hand, if things turn out good - that she fancies you too, your relationship can now take a step further.

Well, good luck with your endeavour!

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The Lies Women Tell

There’s the issue that men don’t understand women and women think they understand men but don’t. But often, it’s actually because of the presence of lies in a relationship that leave both parties baffled and clueless about what they want from each other.  

But it’s important to know that trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship. Even though, many will justify that some lies are meant to said in order to maintain a good relationship. For instance, ‘‘white lies” are said in order to make others feel better,

Woman: Do you think I put on weight/ Am I fat?

Man: (thinks she has put on weight) No dear.. you look just fine.

On the other hand, women lie because, as ‘caring creatures’ they want to spare the feelings of the man they are dating or seeing. There are some common lies told by women that people should know the real meaning behind them, especially the men.

So here goes..

1. Don’t worry, it happens to everyone.

>> Well, I think that this lie is a very common one. Because it serves as a reassurance to a person that he/she is fine with whatever problem/situation that she is facing. Well, a girl normally tells this lie because she doesn’t want to show you how upset she is. But in her mind, she’s really thinking otherwise. But often, it’s just a nice way of saying, “Just let me think and leave me alone.” As you see, what a woman says is not what she really thinks.

2. Nothing’s wrong.

>> The most common lie ” I’m fine” when asked if they are fine, is really the most used by women. But often, it’s really a lie in the face. It’s obvious that she is upset, she is acting strange and she doesn’t want to talk to you too much. But when you ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine. Well, that’s coz they don’t want to tell you the real truth and because they are expecting men to figure out that something is wrong and to figure out the solution especially, when they were had to do with it or is the cause of it.

3. I love you just the way you are and I wouldn’t change a thing about you.

>> This is my favourite and the one that I find funniest. But let’s be serious; nobody is perfect. Well, girls are always in the ‘honeymoon period’ where at the beginning of a relationship all of them say this because they don’t really know you very well and well, they indeed fell in love with who you are. But after some time, they will definitely find something that needs changed - your behaviour, your habits etc. So, be wary when she says this because you’ll know it was just a matter of time, before it changes.

4. I like spending time with your friends.

>> It can be a truth or a lie. Depending what kind of relationship she has with your friends, whether she has a personal relationship with each and every one of them or fif it’s just a hi-bye kind of situation. But remember, even if they are your good friends, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends.

5. You’re right.

>> Every argument you have, usually ends up with your girl telling you that you are right. This is the ultimate big lie.  It’s because she perhaps just wants you to stop trying to prove yourself to be right, in crude terms, “to shut up and get over it”. Interesting but true.

6. I don’t mind.

>> Maybe she agrees to stay and watch with you every week at a football game but this doesn’t really mean that she like it. Or maybe, she doesn’t like to eat spicy food but she doesn’t mind because she sees how much you love spicy food. Well, sometimes, it’s a lie that should be appreciated because she’s willing to try something new for you.

7. Your bank account doesn’t matter.

>> All women want a guy who is financial stable and independent. And often, he must be able to assure her a future with no financial problems. This doesn’t mean that you have to be very rich to have a girlfriend! You just need to at least have some money.

8. I like spending time with your family.

>> Well it depends on how her relationship is with your family. Think about it. Do you really think that she likes to spend time with your family if everybody is criticizing her and watching her every move? On the other hand, if she has a great relationship with your family, then it will actually be a truth then. So, it depends.

9. It doesn’t bother to me if you go clubbing with your boys without me.

>> This is too good to be a truth, right? Even she says that this is ok, she will definitely be upset if you do. They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys, and accept this in order to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. If you choose to go, well, perhaps reassure her in different ways such as not dressing up or looking your hottest etc. But you better think twice before you go.

10. I’ll be fine.  

>> Well, she often says this to not make you worry. But sometimes, she may not be fine. So, you will need to analyse the situation in order to determine the truth of this statement!  

Well, it’s important to know that lies are said for a reason. And you need to determine the reason behind the lie before you make any judgements of your girl. It’s a tough process but you need to let her know that it is important that the truth should always be made known. And this all goes down to the basic need of letting each other know their true feelings.

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I’m Back!!!

Dear readers!!!

Firstly, I would like to apologise for my delay in blogging and having to take such a long time to blog! Well, I’m been really busy with my university examinations and preparations that took quite a long time.

Secondly, improvements to the blog will be done in stages and I hope that in the long run, it will benefit all! I have lots of ideas in my mind now, to provide information and an experience for you - my dear reader.

Well, in the meantime, do keep coming back to check on updates of just subscribe to my RSS feeds!

It’s my holidays now, so yep, improvements and changes are a guarantee! Cheers!

With Love :P,

Patricia

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